Do you prefer to travel solo?
Friday, June 13th, 2008
I have taken numerous trips to foreign countries over the years. Approximately 90% of the time, I have traveled solo (without any excess baggage) that’s the way I prefer it to be.
There are advantages and disadvantages of traveling solo – the obvious disadvantage is that it can get awfully lonely at times; as a result you’re forced to find ways to entertain yourself and occupy the time. Eating breakfast and dinner all alone is probably the worst, but in time you get used to it. Let’s face it, most people travel with at least one other person (a friend or a love interest); solo travelers are definitely a minority. In my humble opinion, the fear of loneliness is probably the #1 reason, why most people do not travel alone. Besides the companionship factor, sharing certain travel expenses – taxis, ground transportation and dinners - is another advantage of traveling with a friend. If I travel with a friend however, I make it point to get separate rooms. I value my privacy and I don’t mind paying extra money for a single supplement.
However traveling solo has many advantages. The biggest is FREEDOM - you’re free to do what you want, when you want. Sometimes when you’re traveling with a friend, you find yourself always making too many compromises; also some friends can be too demanding and you can end up becoming a babysitter if they are uncomfortable being alone. Call this the excess baggage factor! In addition, traveling on the road with somebody for an extended period of time is fraught with pitfalls - you know the expression, travel brings out the worst in us. I have heard of many friendships and relationships disintegrating during a long vacation.
Another advantage of traveling alone is that you’ll meet a lot more people - both fellow travelers and locals. From my experience, traveling solo forces me to be more outgoing and gregarious than I am at home. When people are on vacation, they tend to be more sociable and receptive to meeting other people as well. Travelers love to share their travel stories and talk about themselves with fellow travelers. Take a man away from his home environment and he’s less territorial - that is the nature of the beast.








